side note: Mother's Day, my mom just poo-pooed when I said how lucky I am because she's such a wonderful person. She said, "no no..I want something specific." haha. gotta love her. (I said that she has a lot of wisdom that she gives)
Exercise: Things I've given to people...no matter how small, and try to think back to a long time ago (additionally):
Eric: I took over mowing the lawn
Eric: got him tickets to go see B-52s with Jill and Becky and me when I was in high school
Dad: Went to camera shows with him
Dad: listened about Sally
Mom: listened about Dad
Mom: class made her cards when she had surgery
Called random people on the phone and played piano for them
Becky: taught her how to ride a bike in high school
Dawn: helped her study for Spanish test (around 6th grade)
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