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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

schtoof

I want to write about people when a.) I'm jubilant about the person/people/situation, 2) I miss the people, or 3) I am insecure about the people/situation(s).

What is my most persuasive argument for why I should not trust my own judgment when it comes to interpersonal relationships (e.g. making friends)?

historY: when I have pushed myself to *try* to make friends, it NEVER works. What works well is when other people initiate friendships with me. Also, I don't think I know boundaries as well as I should.

In my own estimation, when an interaction with someone is bad, what is my contribution? i.e. What are my disadvantages in interpersonal communication?
My answer so far: 1. My anxiety shows through and makes other people nervous.
2. insecure; I don't think they like me as much as I like them.

3. Vicious cycle: I know my faults and think too much about them; hence, perpetuating them.

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